Girlfriends in Your Life

This poem was just sent to me by a girlfriend I hold very close to my heart, I think it epitomises everything about girlfriends in our lives.

GIRLFRIENDS IN YOUR LIFE

When I was little, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,and then I started to become a woman. And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up, you will see the best in many friends.

One friend is needed when you're going through things with your man

Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your mum.

Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.

One friend will say let's pray together,

Another let's cry together,

Another let's fight together,

Another let's walk away together.

One friend will meet your spiritual need,

Another your shoe fetish,

Another your love for a good laugh, another will be with you in your season of confusion,

Another will be your clarifier,

Another the wind beneath your wings

Another your mentor.

Another your birthing partner (this one wasn't on the list, but is very close to my heart, love you Nanna S)

But whatever their assignment in your life, on whatever the occasion, on whatever the day, or wherever you need them, whether to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair pulled back, or to hold you back from making, a complete fool of yourself ........

Those are your best friends.

It may all be wrapped up in one woman, but for many it's wrapped up in several.

One from 7th grade, one from high school, several from the college years, a couple from old jobs, on some days your mother, on others your sisters, and on some days your daughters.

Time passes, Distance separates, Children grow up, Love waxes and wanes. Hearts break, Careers end, Jobs come and go, Colleagues forget favours, Men don't call when they say they will BUT...........

Girlfriends are always there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you. A girlfriend is never farther away than needing her can reach. The world wouldn't be the same without them, and neither would we.

When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other. Every day, we need each other still.